3 Must Do Things before Quitting Your Job
It
is normal to fall out of love with your job. In fact, on
average every adult has two jobs that they didn’t exactly love. So if you hate
your job, know that you are not alone – and having a job or two you don’t like
is part of growing up and learning through experience.
But
that doesn’t mean that it’s normal to stay in a job that makes you miserable.
Remember: Whatever your situation, you have a choice – and when you think about
every job as a choice, it opens a whole new world of opportunity and abundance.
So
what do you do if you are in a bad working situation? The obvious options are
to quit your job. But did you know that there is a right way and wrong
way to quit your job -- and how you do it can affect how successful you are
after quitting.
3
things you must do before leaving to make sure you are prepared for the next
phase of your career journey.
1. Knowing Exactly Why You Are Quitting
Your Job
This
may sound obvious, but at times people think they know why they are
quitting their job, but they ended up being mistaken. It is a humbling
experience.
Example,
you might think you want to quit your first job because you don’t make enough money.
So you would set out to fix that problem. After doubling your salary and still feeling
miserable, it would be obvious you had fixed the wrong problem. Or the wrong
why!
This
is important because if you quit for the wrong reasons, you are likely to
repeat the underlying problem again down the road.
Get
to the bottom of why you are quitting. Is it the Money? Flexibility? Management?
Or maybe everything is great but the commute is unbearable? Dig deep and ask
yourself questions to find out exactly what makes you want to leave this job.
That's your first assignment before you quit.
2. Come Up with 3 Exit Strategies and
Put at least 1 into Motion
Trust
in yourself and have faith it will all work out but at the same time, you don't
just want play it by ear and "see what happens". And you don't want
to just go applying to every job because any job would be
better than this one. Trust me, things can get
worse.
Instead,
put together at least 3 ideas as part of your exit strategies beyond this job.
Maybe you want to work for a particular company or start your own business or
switch industries. Be specific. Be intentional about your choices.
Then
choose at least one of those ideas and learn everything about it. Do as much
preparation as possible for it while you are still in your job. Take action in
the evenings and on weekends. Build out your exit plan with super smart
strategies and put at least one of those plans into motion before you quit. That’s
your second assignment.
3. Make Your Exit Smooth and Easy
Your Boss or Management may have not
been nice to you and you want to show them by leaving the job. But don't. Take
the high road. Because, this is a terrifyingly small world. Things come around.
You will cross paths with them again. So be professional and coordinate your
exit with your boss so you don't break the trust you have built overtime.
Make
sure you do everything to make it smooth and easy and agreeable to them. Leave
on very good terms, even if you have had a hard time there. And remember, as
you do this difficult third assignment, that you are actually doing all of it
for yourself and your future opportunities.
Whatever your
situation may be, if you feel that your current job is not the right direction
for your career, take these 3 actions sooner than later. If you wait until you
are absolutely miserable, then it's hard to focus and think clearly because
your emotions get in the way. You want to make the decision to quit your job and
the relevant preparation well in advance so that you are always prepared and in
charge of your own career.