Forget being a Good Manager… Be a Good LEADER first!!!

Forget being a Good Manager… Be a Good LEADER first!!!

 

A Leader must be trusted and respected. Many managers believe that their position, experience, or intelligence is enough to make them a leader. Not true. If you don’t have the trust and respect of the people around you, you can’t lead them. To lead one must develop certain qualities and attributes. However, qualities as a person’s character and personality are very difficult to learn. The qualities and attributes that can be worked upon NOW are as follows:

1. Trustworthiness – First & Foremost is “Integrity in action.” A leader must be inherently honest to build the trust of those around him.
2. Fairness – Leader must “tough but fair.” People will respect leaders who are tough on them as long as what they demand is considered fair.
3. Unassuming behavior – We often witness, when people achieve a position of significance, they let their ego get the best of them and become arrogant. It’s difficult to be an arrogant or pretentious leader.
4. Listening - A strong leader is a good listener. Many managers believe that when they are put in a position of authority, they should be the one talking and giving orders. Instead, they should focus on listening even more. Managers who don’t listen can’t really be leaders because they won’t know what’s truly happening around them. Feedback from people around you is the key to success.
5. Open-minded - Leaders don’t believe they have all the answers. Instead, they are confident and secure enough to know they don’t and that it would be smart to listen to what others have to contribute.
6. Sensitive towards People - To get people to openly share with you, they must believe you care about them as individuals and about their ideas. If you can’t develop a rapport with people, you can’t lead them.
7. Sensitive towards Situations - “Situations are created by people and must be dealt with by people.” Often a manager is put in a position where he or she has to resolve disputes or disagreements. A leader can analyze the situation, consider the feelings of those involved, make a prudent decision, and communicate it effectively. It doesn’t mean everyone involved will like or agree with the decision, but if the manager can display sensitivity to the people and the situation, he or she is likely to be an effective leader.
8. Initiative - It’s an attribute, not a quality, and therefore can be learned. To be a leader, a person must be willing to take action. When opportunities present themselves, a leader takes the initiative and pursues them relentlessly.
9. Good judgment - A leader with good judgment has the ability to consider the facts available and other potentially relevant information and has the intuition to combine what is known and unknown to make the best decision. It’s as much art as science, and good leaders understand they will never have all the information or perfect data and is comfortable acting with what he or she has.
   
10. Broad-mindedness - Ability to see the BIG picture. A good leader doesn’t get mired in every last detail but can step back from situations to consider many alternatives. 
11. Flexibility and Adaptability - A true leader must be able and willing to change direction quickly or admit when he or she has made a mistake. A leader is open to change and can adapt easily when necessary.
12. Capacity to make sound and timely decisions - If there’s one thing all successful leaders share, it’s the ability to make decisions. And if a leader is to be successful, those decisions must be made after appropriate consideration. But indecisiveness kills the ability to lead.
13. Capacity to Motivate - Many people associate the capacity to motivate with a fiery leader or an eloquent and effective speaker. And passion and strong communication certainly can aid in one’s ability to lead, but it takes more to motivate others. The courage of your convictions, a certain degree of confidence, and a shared purpose also are necessary to get others to follow you.
14. Sense of Urgency - A good leader favors action over inaction. A good leader wants to move quickly and make things happen. Slow, reactive, passive people don’t tend to end up in leadership roles—and for good reason.